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Karin Peeters - Relationship Coach, Counsellor & Psychotherapist

 
 
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So glad you are here!

Hi, my name is Karin Peeters. I work as a Coach & Psychotherapist in the field of love. As is there any aspect in this human experience that matters more?

Would you like to know how I ended up with love as my speciality? Keep reading, I’ll share two stories with you.

One is uplifting, one is deeply touching - and it comes with a bereavement warning, so go gently if you’re feeling grief…

LIFE IS PRECIOUS. LIVE TRUE TO YOURSELF.

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My personal philosophy and approach to life

Reminding the world how to love

 

In 2006, when I sat atop this Nepalese stupa (a symbolic representation of the Buddha's compassionate and wise mind), I heard a voice, and it said "you are wasting your life”. I knew in my bones that the voice was right.

Now, I can tell you about how this led me to quit my corporate job at Heineken, study spirituality and meditation in India and Nepal (during two unbelievingly special sabbaticals, for a grand total of 3.5 years (for more stunning photos visit bottom of this page), and follow my heart to live in Argentina and the UK to be with the man I love.

But what really mattered is the transformation that happened within me. I felt a different way of being opening up in my heart, my life choices from then onwards motivated by a wish to be of benefit to others, giving me a sense of expansive joy. Buddhists call it Bodhicitta – the awakened heart. Who knows, maybe I got a glimpse of it that day. You and I might call it love. A love for life itself, for the world and all beings, big or small, near or far, friend or foe.

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My life's intention became to love in a way that inspires others. And where better to begin than in our own mind, our own heart and our own home? I am motivated by a deep aspiration to remind people how to love. To fall in love again with themselves, with others, with the planet and with life itself. When we re-connect with a wise love that’s bigger than ourselves, a calm spaciousness, a joy comes over us, radiating out for the benefit of everyone we meet. In this way, I believe our presence alone is healing to others.

Our world desperately needs more kindness, let us spread the love.

 
 
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How past wounds hurt our relationships today

Living from a place of love

 
Karin Peeters as a five year old with her baby brother

Life is so precious. And love is the only thing that truly matters. I learned this in a painful way at a very young age, when suddenly my little brother died. He was only eleven months old, and I was five. At times like that we have two options, to close our heart out of fear of further pain, or to love deeply, exactly because it can be taken away at any moment… I choose the latter.

And yet, the loss and rupture in this love story (as oh my goodness, how much I loved that little boy) had profound adverse effects on how I behaved in my adult relationships. It took me years to even call it a trauma, as worse things have happened to people, no? But I came to understand how many of the unhelpful thoughts, fears and behaviours that affected my romantic encounters were caused by this initial loss. And I learned how it can be healed, and replaced by a resilient foundation of confidence and self-worth. I worked diligently to increase my own inner strength, and I can help you do the same.

My therapeutic approach focuses on how previous experiences shape your understanding of love, intimacy, and connection - but also of conflict, anger and rejection - and to not only make sure this no longer negatively influences your romantic life, but to reveal the true potential for healing and growth in relationships.


Life is precious
Love truly

 
 

 

 
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Thank you for reading my story, and for still being here. Now, let’s do a more formal introduction, if you’d like to get to know me better.

My clients often compare me with a bridge, successfully applying the ancient wisdom traditions of the East to Western life. I enjoy creating union between head and heart, being and doing, East and West, Business and Buddha, Coaching and Therapy.

I'm an experienced Life & Career Coach and qualified Counsellor & Psychotherapist with private practice experience in the City of London and online since 2008.

Thanks to my corporate background at Heineken in The Netherlands I am refreshingly practical with a down-to-earth nature and solution focused attitude.

I offer sessions in English and Dutch.

I combine Western knowledge with an extensive experience in Eastern Philosophy, The Buddhist Art of Living, Mindfulness Meditation and Creative Arts. I was taught about meditation and the mystic spiritual traditions at the source, while living and studying with the monks and nuns in India and Nepal for a total of 3.5 years, during two magical sabbaticals.

I enjoy sharing my suitcase full of techniques with you, to improve your daily life both at work and at home. And I love to guide you to experience heartfelt healing and profound transformation of your body, mind and soul.

 
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I enjoy being a little unusual. I’m result-oriented, for a Psychotherapist. I go deep, for a Coach. I’m ambitious, for a Buddhist meditator. I’m commercial, for a business about healing. I’m extraordinary at what I do, for yet another professional in the field of love and relationships.

I’m all about love, yet I believe it's vital to get to know our anger. Compassion is at the core of what I do, yet believe that compassion is never complete if it doesn’t include yourself. I am passionate about joy, yet I believe we can only be as happy to the extent we dared to face our sorrow. I’m an absolute expert in what I do, yet just like you, with so much more to learn on this wonderful journey called life.

I’m East and West. Spiritual and business-like. Quick and still. Calm and uplifting. Aspirational, and one of you. 

Celebrating Holi

 

Holi, the Hindu "Festival of Colours", celebrates spring, love, and the lasting triumph of good over evil.

Rishikesh, India

 
 
 

 

Curious about my background, training, study, work experience etc? Enjoy exploring my LinkedIN profile, and while you’re there please send me an invite to connect (please mention you came via my website so I know you’re real :) Would be lovely to see you there!

 
 
 
 
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How can I help you today?

If you find yourself anxious and insecure in your relationships, behaving in ways that seem out of proportion to what the situation requires, and in your heart-of-hearts you know this is caused by past wounds, then I can help. Know you are welcome, “small t” trauma, “big t“ trauma, not much recollection of your childhood at all; if your self-esteem disappears in your romantic relationships while overall in life you’re doing quite well in terms of your confidence, then my work is here for your benefit.

 
 

I adore what I do, and it would be an absolute honour to walk with you for a while on this journey called life. Please get in touch, I’d really love to hear from you.

 
 
 
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Photo Gallery 

Spiritual Sabbatical - India & Nepal - 2006, 2017-2019

 
 

Infinite Gratitude

The beauty, serenity, loving-kindness and wisdom received during this magical journey in India & Nepal is immeasurable.

I cannot wait to share what I have learned with you, so it radiates out for the benefit of all.

Photographers: Maksim Timofeev, Bill Kane, Dalai Lama official website, Inge Peeters, Augusto Rodriguez, Mychael James and Vadim Lobodin.